Monday, August 2, 2010

To sex or not to sex

Me: Do you think we're having more sex because we're getting along better right now? Or do you think we're getting along because we're, you know, getting it on?

Husband: We're getting along better, which makes you happier, which means more sex.

Me: I thought it was the other way around.

Husband: Could be.

What do you think? Is there a cause and effect relationship?


  1. Ugh, I go 'round and 'round with this question myself. Personally, I think it works both ways at different times. I guess I really hope it isn't the happiness that leads to the sex because that add a lot of pressure to be happy when sometimes, you're just not going to be that day (week, month, year? in some cases)

  2. Yes to the cause and effect but not sure which way, possibly both. But sometimes one more than the other. And sometimes neither, you just fancy it ;) or not as the case may be...

  3. I think both of the previous ldaies have put it quite well - who knows, but for sure are they linked. All I know, is I love those times when we're both getting along and getting it on as much as possible. :)